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Do you lack Motivation to:

Play golf

Play guitar

Play football

Read novels

Do anything you really enjoy?

I thought not.

Somewhere, sometime in the past, society decided that we need to work on boring, day-to-day activities in order to get by.

This “rule” has been perpetuated and we are brought up and taught in schools that we have to go to work to earn money. We are programmed to live our lives believing this to be the only way.

“”It’s outrageous and a downright lie!”

Yes, we need to generate a living. Yes, we need to have enough money to provide for ourselves and our families, but no we shouldn’t just go to work for that reason.

How many people hate their jobs? I can’t begin to count the times I’ve heard that phrase. Are those people motivated to work?

Our goal in life should be to understand what we really love doing and find a way of making that into a business. We should go to work for the satisfaction of what we do.

Surely like me, you want to spend your days doing what you love.

At the weekends do you really do things you don’t want to? Doing what you prefer to do is what life is all about!

There is nothing but pain and drudgery if we are compelled to do something that we don’t like or that we’re expected to do.

Would it be hard to maintain a positive attitude and stay highly motivated if every day you woke up in the knowledge that you were going to do something you loved?

So there’s your challenge. As you create the lifestyle of your dreams focus on what you love. Build your life around that and you’ll be healthier, wealthier and any lack of motivation will be a thing of the past.

OK, OK, I hear the complaints…

But this, but that.

But “what if it is possible to do what you love everyday?”

Use that as your starting point and focus on the positive and you CAN & WILL find a way.

Focus on the impossible and it will be just that.

Go on, do what you love.

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Hot on the heels of my post about Motivation Paste I received an email from Joe Vitale.

It seems he has his own Motivation Paste in the form of a What If Up Club

You may question “what the devil is a What If Up Club” – it’s much less complicated than you might think!

Simply answer the question “What If” with a positive.

So instead of thinking about the possible negative outcomes you only focus on the potential positives.

So I’m currently motivating myself with the thought “What If I get 1000 Stumbles on my Motivation Paste post”

Now that an great example of Internal Positive motivation. I’ll keep that thought for a few days – that’s how to stay motivated!

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We’ve all heard it – probably starting at school – “he’s just not motivated” or “she really lacks motivation”

If our teachers thought it was so important – enough to write it in our reports – why did they do so little to help us understand motivation?

20 odd years ago I was on a management “development” course and we invented Motivation Toothpaste. Simply brush first thing in the morning and last thing at night and you’d have that vital ingredient for success in anything you did – motivation.

If you believed in the paste enough it would work – the belief alone would be enough to keep you motivated. You knew you couldn’t fail at whatever you did.

If only it really was that simple!

Instead of one solution – the Motivation Paste, we are faced with 4 factors:

Positive & Negative motivation and Internal & External influences

The difficulty is knowing what motivates us and where it comes from! And how to stay motivated in the face of setbacks and negativity.

• Are we born with motivation?
• Do some people have an abundant supply of the stuff?
• Are we motivated by external sources such as rewards or praise?
• Does the actual challenge motivate us?

I know nothing about the science of this subject but the answer is so critical to our success.

If we are not motivated to do something we either won’t attempt it or we’ll do it just because we have to. It’s part of the job. The boss told us to do it.

But for us, building our perfect lifestyle, we need to be self motivated because nobody is waving the big stick. If we don’t do what is required nobody else will care!

At its most basic level motivation is what gets us out of bed each day:

• Hunger, thirst, call of nature.

• Fear of losing job if late.Basic human needs.

But for most of us there’s something deeper. There’s a passion or desire to do something:

• Golf today
• Going on holiday
• Love of business
• A new car
• Sense of achievement
• A moral or desire to help others

Even then there are days where we are not motivated. An argument with partner the night before, a cold developing, it’s raining…

As I was thinking about this subject I found this post that lists 21 proven motivation techniques

Reading through them I reached the conclusion that there are 4 types of motivation and each will be present at all times but only one will be dominant at any particular time.

External Negative

Some people respond to negative motivation – do it or else.

Most people who hate their jobs live with this. Get that done or you’ll be fired!

But, it results in a grudging activity induced by fear of the consequences. Not exactly the best way to have a motivated workforce!

By it’s very nature the negative motivation breeds negativity – mainly because the action is not chosen for it’s own virtues but fear of other consequences.

External Positive

This can be exceptionally motivating for some people. Praise from the boss for a job well done. The promise of a reward for doing something correctly, quickly or exceptionally well.

Most sales organisations use positive rewards as part of their motivational strategy.

Internal Negative

This can be the most damaging.

If I don’t do this…

I must get this done or…

I don’t want to be in debt so…

Although possibly motivating there are other implications for this kind of self talk – in fact this kind of “motivation” can lead to the Law of Attraction working against you.

Internal Positive

Goal driven. Focused on targets you want to achieve for yourself. Positive self talk with maybe mini rewards for achievement.

Although the most inspiring, for many this is the hardest motivation to enjoy consistently because it is dependent upon keeping focused and positive. Outside influences can change your attitude in an instant.

This is THE ONE to master. Get a tube of Motivation Paste, use twice daily and the secret of success is yours.

WARNING To be read in conjunction with articles on positivity, positive thinking, abundance, goals and focus.

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